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This magical productivity combo will make your holidays happier!

Published about 1 year ago • 2 min read

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In honor of a magical season, I have a magical productivity combination for you: the 80/20 principle and your holiday plans. Why? Because applying this technique to your choices will reduce your stress and make space to make merry.

The holiday season, while a time of joy and connection, is also one filled with stress. With the financial pressures, family dynamics, social obligations, and disruption of routines, many people find themselves feeling overwhelmed. How do we sidestep these stressors? With a leveraging technique known as 80/20 principle (also known as the Pareto principle).

The 80/20 principle states that for many outcomes, roughly 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes. When applied to the holidays, this means focusing on the 20% of activities, traditions, and relationships that bring you 80% of the joy and meaning.

Consider these specific strategies to help you stress less this season:

  1. Holiday Shopping: Prioritize the 20% of people who are most important to give gifts to. Focus on fewer, more meaningful gifts rather than many small, inexpensive ones.
  2. Managing Expectations: Identify the 20% of holiday traditions that are truly essential to you. Let go of the rest and set realistic expectations.
  3. Simplifying Preparations: Delegate tasks, say no to excess commitments, and find ways to streamline your holiday to-do list.
  4. Decluttering: Clearing physical, mental, and gift-giving clutter can make the season much less stressful.

Would you like to learn more about the Pareto principle and how to apply it? There are two episodes of the Positively LivingⓇ Podcast you’ll want to check out. In Episode 199 you’ll find a general introduction on how to apply this principle to your life and in Episode 236 I review the principle and how it can help you have happier holidays without the standard stress. (I include lots of examples of ways my family and I have applied this to our lives, which was especially important during times of caregiving and grief.)

For more support on decluttering and simplifying, click on the declutter playlist.

I’m curious, what are your traditions for the holidays and what have you let go of to make the season less stressful? Any tips you would add?

Here's to saying yes to less stress and more joy,

♥

Lisa

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